Monday, January 31, 2011

Thoughts.

I've been in a passive, introverted state lately.
Not that I don't like the season I'm in now
Or where my life is going
Because I do.
But sometimes, I miss my mom.
And my dad, and sister, and brother in law
Sometimes I miss driving around that small town
Sitting in my favorite cemetery
Picking dog hair off of everything.
Living in the middle of no where

Maybe it's just because everything is so different right now
And that I don't really have anything solid or predictable.
I'm learning to make new predictables.

I haven't journaled in I don't know how long
Honestly, I'm not even sure where my journal is.
I sit back and try and comprehend everything
But it seems impossible
So, I purpose in my mind not to let myself get overwhelmed
Or fearful.

I'm just trying to find myself in this big, crazy world.

Sunday, January 30, 2011

Brain.

I can't let me brain get to me.
Convincing me of things I know to be lies.
Emotions that want to take over
Feelings that want to be hurt.

But, I know there are different things that I am learning
And my life is taking another turn.
That I'm seeing people differently
In a good way
That I can't be too concerned or scared or worried about what they think, if I'm liked or accepted.
God loves and accepts me.
That is all that truly matters.

So, if I'm close to those people my heart has this little longing to spend time with or not, it'll be oaky.
I can't get worked up over it like my flesh wants to.

Keep strong and carry one.

Saturday, January 29, 2011

Why is it.

Why is it when I'm not feeling too well is when I feel closer to God?
My head is all spacey, I can't hear out of my right ear, I'm blowing my nose every 30 seconds...
Yet, I feel closer to God.

Some people may think God gives them sickness
I know He doesn't
And I also know He doesn't leave me in it.

Maybe that's why I seem to feel Him closer.
Because in the rough, dark, hard times
It just makes it easier to prove Him.

Friday, January 28, 2011

so.

Medication is stupid.
I'm sure it's helping.
But.
At first it made it worse.
Because I was told to take the wrong stuff.
So, now, I'm on four different medications
And I will be around a lot of people tonight.

It's bound to get entertaining.

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

fact.

Dying is the easy part.
It's living that takes courage.

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Hate.

Just spilled out my guts.
For over an hour.
To have the computer be stupid.
and not post it.

I'm so angry.

Monday, January 24, 2011

Emotional.

I've come to realize that people who cry kinda frustrate me.

I use the term "frustrate" in many different senses.

Good and bad.



I've noticed that recently when someones been talking about something that brings them to tears, it makes me categorize them.

Pathetic
Over-Dramatic

Annoying

here-we-go-again

and the occasional one that grips my heart strings.



It's been mostly a subconscious thing

I guess it's always been a norm for me

But I never really noticed it.

Until recently.



I was sitting in a room full of girls. For a Bible study.

It ended up turning into a room full of tears as girls poured out their hearts

and, of course, cried.



I got all tense, kinda shut everyone out but didn't really want to be rude, so I paid attention a little bit...

Then

I sat back.

And took a few steps back.

Why the heck am I being like this?



First of all, I'm not better than any of these other girls.

That's apparently some stupid mindset I've gotten myself almost convinced of.

And it needs to die.



I guess I'm afraid that I'm nothing, so if I make convince myself I'm better than someone then I have to be something. Right?

Wrong.

You end up a nothing. Alone. With no friends

and when you have a really crappy day, no one cares

And you've built up this happy wall that no one truly sees through

So you're just stuck.

And it's your own darn fault.



Second, It's okay to share your heart.

I guess I've confused myself.

Reminding myself that there are people who know everything about me.

Granted. There's one thing I don't really talk about. Maybe... two people know? I think just two.

One is family, the other I rarely speak to anymore (sadly)

We still keep up randomly, but not as often as I'd prefer...

Anyways.

It's so not spoken of, I kind of convince myself it doesn't exist.

Hah.

Anyways

There are a lot of people I'm "shared my heart" with

And the numbers seem to be increasing.

This made me feel dirty.

Incomplete.

Why am I telling so many people these intimate details about me?

Because I want to be understood?

Because they ask?

Because I feel it may help the situation?

Who am I kidding?



No one understands me.

This is just how it is.

I feel like I keep trying to fill this void.

And that I try and keep myself completely busy

So I don't have time to think

Or feel.

Or recognize reality.

And that this cycle of business started long ago, and now I can't seem to stop it.

And I feel overwhelmed.

But, maybe I like to feel overwhelmed.

Maybe it's one of the only normals I can seem to grasp.



All my normals seem to have disappeared.



The Bible says to guard your heart.

It's something I've told many girls, and guys too.

Mostly in reference to relationships, like, dating ones.

But maybe I should take my own advice.

I need to guard my heart against people.

And not be just blurting to everyone and their second cousin about every little intimate detail about me.

I think I do it because I tell one person, in hopes they'll understand.

Then

When they don't

I try to find someone else who might.

Or I get screwed over by someone I was close to.

And then I feel super empty

Or then change happens

and happens

and happens again

and I feel like my head is spinning

and I'm not sure what to think

or feel.



Then I complicate things.



I'm not sure what I need to recognize or believe with this one.

I know it's not good to keep things in

and trusting people is important

but I can't seem to find the balance.

I'm an extremist.

Happy-mediums are complex to me.

And I'm super hard on myself

As proved today.

When I got so nervous I seemed to have misplaced my brain when my boss was around, and messed up worse then ever, and choked.

I choked.

She recognized it.

I felt even more stupid

tried to play it off

then fought with my brain and everything it was telling me

about how people are probably talking about me

who am I anyway

who am I kidding?



anyways.

So, I still have to work on that one



But, feeling is okay.

Crying, even, is okay...

God is emotional, afterall.

Someone mentioned that in Bible study tonight.

How God is an emotional Being

And how He created us to have emotions.

I tried to remember the one-sentence summary they gave to all these thoughts in my head about it, but the point is, it made sense.



It's okay to cry.

It's okay to feel.



I preach it to everyone else all day.

Sometimes I need to preach it to myself.



I just don't want to seem needy

Or weak

Or incapable

Or a bajillion other things my brain tells me.



I probably need to slow down long enough to let myself feel.



I think I'm afraid.



So, why am I spilling out all of this onto this blog

Knowing anyone can read it

and more than likely someone will who I wouldn't really care to know and would never think of telling?



Well...

I don't know.



Maybe simply because it's faster to type than try and get it all down on paper.



I haven't journaled in too long.



I need to just stop time.

Just. Be.

re-group.

re-gain my thoughts.



I think right now I'm not being affective to anyone.

who am I kidding.

Saturday, January 22, 2011

Truth.

The devil is a liar.

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Happiness.

I left the bank
To work at a coffee shop.

Now, to most people, this sounds stupid
Foolish, even.
But
To me, it's one of the greatest decisions.

I'm feel like I belong
I'm happy
I'm actually getting the hang of everything really quickly.

To me, this feeling, this...happiness
Is worth more money or "security" I could have anywhere.

To me
It makes sense.
And I like it.

Random Thought

Had a random conversation with a cherished friend, David Moody, today.

I had this heavy feeling at the wedding I couldn't seem to explain.
I felt like secluding myself.
And crying.
And had no idea why.

He was telling me how he had to get away from everyone, too.
It was too overwhelming for him.

Just the thought and realization that everyone keeps leaving us.
And you never truly know who will be here how long.

I said goodbye to my roommate today.
I didn't think it would be as hard as it was.
I made it through the wedding
didn't cry
just tried to push everything out of my mind.

I think it drains me.
I keep kicking myself over many things.
It's so upsetting.
To me.

But now,
I've said goodbye.

I'm hopeful that I will see her again
But
reality is
It's not guaranteed.

That's sometimes a tough pill to swallow.

This is what I signed up for.
I know it's inevitable.
God is guiding me through every moment
I know I'll be okay

Some moments, it just kinda knocks the breath out of you, and you have to take a step back to re-group.

Sunday, January 16, 2011

Weird.

"Jesus was weird. John the baptist was weird. Elijah was weird. We need people who aren't out of the ordinary to change the world. People don't understand how to fully describe the God in you so they write it off as weird. I love you. You are the way you are suppose to be for God's glory and no one elses."

Words of wisdom from a dear friend.

Saturday, January 15, 2011

I haven't been able to journal.
I'm currently sitting in a hotel room in Austin
Filled with smoke.

I'm not too sure what's on my mind.
But I know it's a lot.

Such is life, I suppose.

Not much I can do about it now.
It'll all work out.
Regardless of the outcome.

So, whether it's how I hope
Or less than ideal
I'll be okay.

Tonight.

I gave my testimony at the Net.

Betty came, which meant a whole lot to me...

I don't think I had realized how many people didn't actually know my story, until I'm up there, mid sentence.
It can be a pretty overwhelming thing.
I laughed a lot.
Mostly out of nerves
Or when I realized I just said something really raw
And there are people here
Staring at me
Listening.

There was a lot of confirmation leading up to this moment.
Visions fulfilled
Ironically timed songs
other speakers using the same scripture, concept, tangent

I made myself so nervous throughout the day that I actually got sick twice.
Go me.

Now, I sit here.
Slapped in the face with the reality of what just happened.
Exposure.

I felt naked on the stage.
There I was, pouring my life out for everyone to know.

For what purpose?
None but obedience
At least, that's all I see.

It just seemed like there would be...more...
This was a big deal for me
But, why would I expect there to be more?
I don't know.

There's much I don't understand.
There's much in me people will never understand.

I bear a burden that few know
And most will never understand.

That's alright by me.

Sunday, January 9, 2011

Wow, Wow, Wow!

So, I'm procrastinating doing my food handler's class online.
But, I just can't get past everything that God has told and shown me today.

I don't think I can begin to express it here if I tried.
Mostly because I'm in a common place and keep getting distracted.
But, let me tell you, Jesus is awesome.
He cares, He loves, He understands, He provides...

He is everything.

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

My heart is heavy.
My heart is overwhelmed.

I can't be everywhere at once.
I can't do everything at once.
I'm way behind.
I feel like I could just break.

What do I do?

"Stupid, selfless person"
very good description...

My heart is torn.
It is every where.
Spilled out all over the floor.
Ran over, chewed and spit out.

What do I do?
It all isn't possible.
But, it's all so important to me.

So, how do I juggle it all?

All this, and just to have my heart left out in the cold.
Forgotten, ignored, hardly glanced at.
What was once something so treasured, is now not even a second thought.

So, it is.

Sigh

Where do I begin?

My heart is rather heavy.



I haven't been able to journal at all this year

And it just seems that all these things keep piling up.



I saw an old friend today. One I hadn't seen in a few years.

We've kept up through text and facebook, which I am extremely grateful for

He came to Texas, and made a point to come to Corpus to see me.

This means the world to me.



He updates me about Bible School people we know...



This is when my heart starts breaking...



I realize, there are so many people I have known that I never hear from.

Some even come to Corpus--knowing I live there, but not saying a word.

Some even live 15 minutes from me, and I've never seen...

I find out people I used to be super close to got married...

I find out people are pregnant

People are divorced...



It's a lot to take it.



It just makes me think of whether or not all that time I spent on them, and all of myself I put into the friendship was wasted...

What's the point?



and here, currently, I find myself in a season of life where I'm meeting tons of new people, and spending time and energy with and on them.

I think these will finally be the friends that will keep up

But, there's a voice in the very back of my head saying they aren't...

Or what if they're not.



I guess my heart just breaks

Or doesn't know what to feel.



How do I know what is worth it?

I guess it's all a risk.

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

I had a thought today at work.

I'm switching jobs, and I was talking to one of my coworkers about the whole ordeal.
We got to talking about change, and control, and everything else that we love to hate.

It's kinda funny to hear what reaction I get from which generation when I tell them
"I'm leaving a bank to work at a coffee shop"
Younger people are all supportive. They think it's great, see the potential in and and the happiness it holds.
Older people think I'm foolish. They tell me in this economy I should be careful and think long and hard about my decision.
I understand what they're getting at, but in this case, I'll actually be doing better at the coffee shop.

anyways.
What is it that makes this seem like such a bad thing?

The American Dream isn't all it's cracked up to be.
People think you have to have this big title, be completely taken care of, have lots of money in savings, and be able to control every single thing that happens to be happen.
Reality is, there's reality.
Unexpected things happen.
It's inevitable.

My coworker and I discussed life.
unpredictable, messy, beautiful life.
How sometimes, things just happen. You don't plan for them, you don't see it comin', but you can't stop it.
That's when you just take the punches as they come
"Play the cards your dealt"
I think that is some of the best advice I've ever been given.
If you try and control everything or predict it before it happens, you're just gonna go crazy.
Life is risky. Anything could happen at any time. What if's are around every corner.
Honestly, What can you do about it?
Nothing.
But take it as it comes, and make the most of it.

I don't think she realized how much she encouraged me.